Let’s move onto burnout
Burnout happens when we expend more energy than we replenish. To recover from burnout, you need to participate in more energy recovery activities than energy draining activities. Think about this the same way you would approach trying to gain weight – you need to take in more calories than you burn each and every day.
You might be wondering, ok, but how do I replenish my energy reserves? The answer – through self-care.
But self-care isn’t just a bath or a massage. It’s important you understand what counts as self-care for you – because self-care isn’t the same for everyone!
Here’s a good guideline – if it leaves you feeling like you just got an amazing hug from one of your favorite people in the whole world – that’s probably self-care.
You can learn more about self-care and how to build a self-care routine that works for you by downloading my free Self-Care Toolkit.
And check out this blog post for five tools to help you not only avoid burnout but which are also great for helping you recover from burnout.
Finally, let’s address sending your thesis off into the world
Your thesis is something you poured your time and energy (and probably blood, sweat, and tears) into over the last several years. It’s natural to feel vulnerable when you send it off into the world.
Not only are you concerned that you’ll be judged for the quality of your work, but it’s natural to feel protective of the way others receive your thesis.
If this resonates with you, take some time to practice deep self-compassion. Recognize that you are not your thesis. You produced it, but it doesn’t define who you are. And the response it receives does not reflect on your value as a person.
If you have a meditation or mindfulness practice, this is a great time to use it. If you don’t, consider some of these options to help you find ease with your discomfort. Meditation, mindfulness, breathwork, and yoga are all great tools to explore and find the right fit for you.
The bottom line on all of this, exercise extreme compassion and self-love right now. You’ve been through the ringer and you need to be gentle as you recover. When in doubt, ask yourself how you would treat a dear friend or loved one who’s been through the same situation? Then do that for yourself.
I’m sending you a great big hug – you’ve got this!